So
you are thinking that you have met the man of your dreams, but what if
this particular bachelor does not want to give up his bachelor life, how
do spot the signs?
Here
are a few tips for you to keep an eye on when it comes to spotting if
your man is looking at a long term future with you or with himself.
The
first sign that he is not totally committed to you is if he spends a
lot of time online playing someone from the opposite side of the globe
at some weird and all consuming adventure game. If you find that most of
his social interactions are virtual ones then you may want to consider
leaving very quickly.
Next
up is one of the most common problems that women find when starting a
new relationship and trying to pin down their man to a long term
commitment and that is the problem of the domineering mother. If he
starts rearranging dates or turning up late because of something to do
with his mother then you may want to think about your position in the
pecking order. There is nothing wrong with a man who cares about his
mother, but if it goes to extremes then you may want to look elsewhere.
Has
he had a large number of short term relationships with other women? If
you discover that he does not hang around for long then be worried, it
could be that he just hasn’t met the right women yet and you are just
the person to pin him down to a long commitment, however be wary that
you may just be another notch on his bedpost.
Finally
if you have managed to navigate through the first weeks of the
relationship and when casually mentioning the future your man suddenly
goes pale or makes excuses and heads for the bathroom, there is a good
possibility that he is not here for the long haul.
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